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Dating safely

Most people you meet are exactly who they say. These habits protect you from the few who aren’t.

Report scams to Report Fraud

Report Fraud replaced Action Fraud on 4 December 2025 and covers England, Wales and Northern Ireland, including the Isle of Wight. Report online at reportfraud.police.uk or call 0300 123 2040.

Source: Report Fraud: Report Fraud service goes live

Spot romance fraud early

Romance fraudsters build trust quickly, avoid video calls and meeting, then ask for money for an emergency, travel or an investment. Never send money, crypto or gift cards to someone you have only met online.

Source: Report Fraud: Romance fraud costs UK victims 102 million

Keep back from cliff edges

The cliff edges on Tennyson Down are unfenced, and the south and west coasts have high chalk cliffs. Stay on the path, keep well back from the edge and plan to finish a walk date before dark.

Source: National Trust: The Needles Headland and Tennyson Down

Further readingOur sister site Smooch explains how romance fraud works and how to report a romance scam in the UK. WhichDating, our sister review site, explains the signs of a dating scammer.

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